Relationship Issues
“A good relationship is not characterized by the absence of quarrels, arguments, and fights, but by the way the couple deals with them.”
Your relationship didn’t start out this way.
Looking back, there are so many fond memories.
When this relationship first started, you felt so happy when you are together, felt loved, heard, understood, accepted, and excited.
Maybe there were some ups and downs along the way.
But now it just feels like conversation turns into arguments or fights all the time!
Maybe it’s not so much the conflict that bothers you.
Maybe it’s the feeling of loneliness and disconnectedness even when you are in the same space doing things together.
Maybe it just doesn’t feel the same anymore.
So we ask…
Where did it go wrong?
What happened to love?
What happened to “us”?
If you are feeling lost on where to go in your relationship, it is time to seek couples/marriage counseling.
Does this sound like your relationship now?
Feeling emotionally drained and have no more energy
Facing stressful relationship/marital problems
Tearing each other apart for a while
Noticing all the things that are going wrong with the relationship
Feeling sad and hopeless about your relationship
Feeling hurt by each other’s words and actions
Feeling lonely and disconnected even when you are together
Intimacy have faded
Feeling like you can’t be yourself in the relationship anymore
Needing to be right
Questioning “Does she/he even love me anymore?”
“We literally fight about EVERYTHING.”
“He/She/They just doesn’t listen.”
“Why are we even doing this?”
“We used to be…”
“Are we even happy with each other anymore? …Is this over?”
This is your chance to get help. If you wait too long, you might end up losing it altogether.
In the end, we only regret the chances we didn’t take and the decisions we waited too long to make.
Where did the love go?
“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” - Friedrich Nietzsche
Being in a relationship is hard work! And I’m here to help.
I’m not here to judge or criticize you, your partner, or your relationship. I’m also not here to take sides.
I’m here to listen and to help you bring healing into your relationship/marriage. Allow me to guide you so we can put your relationship back on the right track for meaningful connection.
A deeply fulfilling relationship is so much more than love and intimacy. It’s about experiencing more depth and understanding of each other, learning about each other, and appreciating each other’s perspectives.
Are you ready to explore what your relationship could look like?
Couples therapy works better when couples seek help early. If you wait until the problems are way too far advanced to the point where one person may have already given up on the relationship, it may be difficult to repair the relationship then.